My alcohol-fuelled moody from hell

Selfies in a craft toilet. Jeremy says he doesn’t remember holding this photo.

I’M not accurately a assured flyer. So when we book my Etihad economy, Sydney to Paris around Abu Dhabi flight, we spent a month researching and re-researching and creation and remaking seating requests.

My claustrophobia and fear of what we cruise an fallacious mode of travel (they still can’t totally explain gravity, ffs) ballooned as a days before to my depart drew nearer.

My final resolution was to flare out an additional $230 dollars for an exit-row aisle chair — maybe a usually chair that competence stop my heart from entering my throat, and to move along a prescribed bottle of Xanax.

That morning before we left home, we checked a seating devise and was agreeably astounded that nobody had split out a additional money for a middle-seat subsequent to me.

Everything seemed to be entrance adult Milhouse.


When we checked in, not usually was my aisle chair already requisitioned (by a associate flyer who’s split out a additional cash) yet we was relegated to a chair opposite a wall, one arm forced behind a uncanny cosmetic protrusion, and between us, in a center seat, was a clean lady who had not paid a additional cash, yet had merely been allocated a seat.

With one Xanax and a shot of Airport tequila in my system, we demanded an explanation. Already imprinting my position as a formidable flyer, a lady in a aisle chair I’d been betrothed was poetic adequate to barter seats with me, yet there was still a matter of a fact that unless we veered to one side, to a reserve of a singular armrest, we would have spent a 14-hour moody elbow-to-elbow with a clean gentleman.

Despite a thumbs up, Jeremy Cassar was not happy about a seating arrangements. It was a parsimonious fit for a 14-hour flight.

Despite a thumbs up, Jeremy Cassar was not happy about a seating arrangements. It was a parsimonious fit for a 14-hour flight.Source:Supplied

The Etihad staff was mostly lovely, and dealt with this overly formidable newcomer with grace. The stewardess and cabin personality were supportive to my anxiety, yet unfortunately a sold Northern Irish family a few rows behind weren’t on a same page.

A few some-more Xanax and a garland of on-air vodkas after (do not do this, a warnings of alcohol-fuelled benzo blackouts are totally accurate), and we had paid for Wi-Fi in a air, where we wrote foolish Facebook station updates about some long-gone ex-girlfriend and sent some crazy iMessages to my friends and family — all of that we didn’t remember until after a fact.

What we do remember, though, is a father of a discontented family job me a harassment (I’m certain on some level, he wasn’t wrong), and afterwards melancholy to take me outward and give me a good post-flight pummeling.

So, we took a few phone photos of a family for posterity, offering a truce, apologised for my poise and rationalised it as due to my serious fear of flying. The male literally blocked his ears and his mother simulated we didn’t exist.

As we can imagine, all we wanted to do was get off that plane.


When we arrived during Abu Dhabi and that seatbelt pointer flicked off, each clammy and discontented newcomer stood and grappled during a overheads, afterwards were forced to wait during slightest 20 mins in back-to-crotch station positions.

Luckily, they weren’t wakeful it was partly my fault.

Once a doors eventually breathed open, and we stepped out into a corridor, Airport confidence were watchful for me. The cabin personality had pronounced that we had been holding photos of a family and we indispensable to settle this with a police.

I was excellent with this, as a male had threatened me, so we waited for a family to alight. And waited. And waited.

It incited out they’d already stepped off, and it was time to go and lane them down. When we were incompetent to locate them, we was introduced to a Muslim male of authority, in a full white garb, who insisted we follow him into a room so as to take down my side of a story.


I refused to follow, explained my side, and handed over my comment of a story, that apparently I’d created down on paper before to exiting a plane.

The male afterwards left inside a bureau with my account, withdrawal me rhythmical by members of Airport confidence — who, we contingency say, were indeed flattering awesome. But we feared what awaited me when that male in full normal clothe emerged from a office. Yes, a bit of undiscerning informative injustice there, one we didn’t even know existed.

When a lady reappeared, he hold a tiny square of paper in his hand. In his 30m travel from a doorway to my watchful seat, a thousand things ran by my conduct — was we to be fined for my behaviour? Or worse, was it a note to a military to detain me and chuck divided a key?

Remember, we was not of sound mind.

“Sorry for a inconvenience. It is apparent this family were wakeful of a hazard they had done and had left as fast as they could.”

My heart returned to my chest as he handed over a small bit of yellow paper.

“Here is a document for a nominal sandwich”.

It was a many gratifying (disgusting) airfield panini I’ve ever eaten.


Don’t brew Xanax and alcohol. This isn’t a open use proclamation — it’s a cold, tough truth. And if we fear drifting that most — enrol in an empowerment convention or fear march or wait for a invention of teleportation.

I apologize to everybody on that moody solely for a male with a gusto for melancholy violence, and subsequent moody I’m holding a few vitamins and celebration Fanta, and will maybe learn God for the duration.